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If Wedding Rings Could Protect
✨I had commitment. ✨I had faith. ✨I had endurance. What I didn’t have was language for: → Boundaries that weren’t ultimatums → Intimacy that wasn’t performance → Submission that didn’t quietly erase me
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Becoming Someone Who Can Stay
If there’s one thing this lifestyle has taught me, it’s this: Health has to withstand real life. Not the curated version. Not the “after things calm down” version. The one with grief, caregiving, diagnosis, marriage repair, nervous system overload, and days where progress looks nothing like transformation
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A Lifestyle I Can Grow Old With
Before I ever touched a Trim Healthy plan, I believed health had a very specific look. A certain body shape. A certain number on the scale. A result that mattered more than how I got there
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Why Regulation Matters More Than Control
My body hasn’t always signaled overwhelm the same way. What’s changed just as much as the signals themselves is my awareness of them. Early in my life as a wife and mother, I mostly ignored what my body was trying to say—not because I was resilient, but because I didn’t know how to listen.
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Staying Fed in a Life of Service
I didn’t realize my needs mattered alongside my family’s until I started missing meals, and paying for it somehow. It seems like that would never happen when I have struggled with disordered eating, but it did. 🦋Not in a dramatic way. 🦋Not intentionally. 🦋Just quietly—between caring for everyone else.
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Why wanting sweet was never the problem
Sweetness has never been just one thing for me. It has been comfort. It has been safety. It has been joy. And sometimes—quietly—it has been rebellion.
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Where being “on plan” wasn’t enough
There are parts of a Trim Healthy Lifestyle that photograph beautifully. And then there are the parts you live quietly—many times without language, without applause, without certainty that you’re doing it “right.” Those were the parts I struggled with most, once I started living it out for myself as well as my family.
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The Why Beneath My Trim Healthy Lifestyle
I didn’t fall apart all at once. I had been dabbling for years in the Trim Healthy Lifestyle for myself, but I had already been completely committed to my children eating this way—I was doing just enough to keep myself afloat, but not enough to truly heal.
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Health That Withstands
This is not an outline for you to follow. It’s a life-story that has been lived. What you’ll find here isn’t a version of Trim Healthy polished for the internet or reduced to rules, routines and rigid control. It’s what happens when nutrition meets real life: grief, caregiving, motherhood, marriage, trauma, diagnosis, faith, doubt, and…
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Stillness Without Shame: December Moon Wisdom
December arrives without asking permission. Light is brief. Darkness stretches long. The body slows whether the calendar allows it or NOT.
